Happy hump day! Today, I wanted to touch on a different kind of self-sabotage – or is it actually self-preservation in disguise? The question was: Have I ever walked away from something I really wanted? The answer is a resounding YES, several times.

The example that immediately springs to mind is the Apple Store. Oh, those shiny gadgets! That latest iPhone, the sleekest iPad… my tech-loving heart does a little flutter every time. There have been countless times I’ve walked in, felt that pull, imagined how much easier (and cooler!) my life would be with that new piece of technology.

But then, the single mom reality check hits. Hard. That money isn’t just for a want; it’s for Xavy’s school supplies, for groceries, for keeping the lights on. That’s when I have to make the conscious decision to walk away. It stings a little, that feeling of longing. But there’s also a strange sense of empowerment that comes with it.

Being a single mom without consistent financial support from the other side has definitely given me a different perspective on “wants” versus “needs.” It’s forced me to prioritize, to understand that not every desire deserves to be fulfilled, especially when there’s a bigger responsibility at play. It’s a constant balancing act, and sometimes, walking away from something I want is the most responsible thing I can do for what I need.

It’s a different kind of self-denial, perhaps, but it comes from a place of strength and a clear understanding of my priorities. Has anyone else experienced this kind of “walking away” wisdom? I’d be curious to hear your thoughts.

Stay tuned for the rest of the week as we delve deeper into this fascinating topic of self-sabotage! Sending you all a little bit of my single-mom strength today.