Pushing Pause on Perfect: Finding Peace in “Good Enough”
“Perfect outcome” – a familiar hum in my introverted brain, especially when the work demands of juggling a full-time job […]
Happy Pessimism
Happy Pessimism
Finding Sunshine in the Shadows: A Single Mom’s Tale of Happy Pessimism
Ah, “happy pessimism.” It sounds like an oxymoron, doesn’t it? Like sunshine on a rainy day, or maybe more accurately,
Happy Pessimism
Flying Solo with Murphy’s Law
You know Murphy’s Law, right? That delightful little nugget of wisdom stating that “anything that can go wrong will go
Happy Pessimism
The Uneven Farewell: Navigating Endings with a Touch of Happy Pessimism
The past few years, I’ve learned that the way we grapple with endings is as varied and complex as life
Happy Pessimism
The Art of the Hilarious Hindsight (and Solo Parent Survival)
Being an introvert navigating the exhilarating (and exhausting) world of solo-parenting, while juggling a full-time job and a side hustle,
Self-Sabotage
The Double-Edged Sword: Why Success Can Feel as Scary as Failure (and How to Push Through)
Life as a single parent often feels like juggling flaming torches while riding a unicycle. As an introvert (and a
Self-Sabotage
The Quiet Before the Next… Well, You Know
Life here in sunny Dumaguete has its own rhythm, a mix of the daily grind, the joys (and occasional dramas)
Happy Pessimism
The Quiet Strength of Zero Expectations (and a Little Bit More)
Hey everyone, fellow introverts and those navigating the wonderfully complex world of single parenthood! As an INTJ-A, my natural inclination
Self-Sabotage
The Dawn of Doubt (and the Long Road to Believing Again)
I can pinpoint several moments when that nasty little seed of self-doubt first took root. That job interview I was
Self-Sabotage
The Case of the Half-Finished Curtains (and My Wandering Mind)
Ah, self-sabotage in its most… domestic form. The question is, what’s the most memorable or epic way I’ve sabotaged myself?